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Umenifanya Ning'are By Christina Shusho Official Video

Umenifanya Ning'are By Christina Shusho Official Video

Christina Shusho has been my all time favorite and after producing Hit after Hit, the Tanzanian songbird has released another masterpiece. A...

I’m Scared of Being Hurt Again.

Brian 0 Relationships 11:52 AM

<a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=6100747827616362355" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Dear Relationship expert,</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For all the times I tried dating in the past years I have been meeting wrong guys who have lied to me, fooled me, used me and broke my heart many times. So, I had decided to give a break to relationships and I have been living a happy and stress-free single life for two years now. But towards the end of last year, I met this wonderful guy, he’s so caring, loving and so amazing. I just don’t know how to stop comparing him from all the guys that I have had in my past relationships. I really want this to work out but I’m scared of being hurt again. This guy has been really <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>understanding all my insecurities. He hasn’t given me any reason to be insecure. I keep over thinking and over analyzing and making myself miserable. </span><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-dLWNTtou6Vopn6syxqkRujB-7jxzisAawsGY8SZUN5atTn5YdCR6Q5BPsH_GN_giZZwvr0PLoA3G0XDWlRMD4OJKdWH-x-J1bg3MfWMYI8vU6ZsRq6lOrwkb3hFds00ynhGj3jVfDJO2/s1600/sss.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="226" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-dLWNTtou6Vopn6syxqkRujB-7jxzisAawsGY8SZUN5atTn5YdCR6Q5BPsH_GN_giZZwvr0PLoA3G0XDWlRMD4OJKdWH-x-J1bg3MfWMYI8vU6ZsRq6lOrwkb3hFds00ynhGj3jVfDJO2/s1600/sss.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>Help me please! <br /><br />My Reply:</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You aren’t alone. Many/<wbr></wbr>most people bring their unlearned lessons, fears, vulnerabilities, and “stuff” with them to their new relationship. Your insecurity sounds like it’s stemming from a combination of lack of control and being vulnerable. My advice: I get that you are scared of being hurt… but you can’t control everything. Part of love is trust and faith. Sometimes you have to let go so that you can grab on. <br />I know what a challenge it is to let go like that. If a challenging situation arises… take a breath and see if it’s your issue (from your past), or if it’s him doing something that is a red flag. <br />Here’s the harsh truth: There’s no bulletproof way to protect yourself from getting hurt — other than never starting a relationship. Just relax and enjoy the moment. You don’t need to have all the answers today. Let the future reveal itself, and then you can make your choices with what’s in front of you. Also remember that people aren’t the same. So you never know this might be the time for your true love. <br />Otherwise, thanks for being a great reader of my articles and I wish you a happy relationship. Stay blessed!<br /><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"></div>

I’m Scared of Being Hurt Again.

Dear Relationship expert, For all the times I tried dating in the past years I have been meeting wrong guys who have lied to me, fooled me...

WHY YOU SHOULD HAVE AN EARLY MARRIAGE

Brian 0 Relationships 11:50 AM

<br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal">Dear ladies, <br />I know it's a long article but worth reading and sharing to your fellow lady. <br />I took my time to make thorough research to bring you this because I made a vow to teach, inspire till I expire.<br /><br />How Does Age Affect Female Fertility? <br /><br />A woman’s age affects her fertility. Age is no barrier to achieving many things. But it can reduce the chance of a woman getting pregnant and having a healthy baby. A woman’s age is the single most important factor affecting her fertility. <br />Fertility is ageist. Age is the single most important factor affecting your fertility and your chances of having a child. <br />Women are born with all the eggs they will ever have. As a woman ages, her eggs age with her, diminishing in quantity and quality. <br />Age is not something we can control. But if you want a baby or another baby, and you’re in a relationship, you can have a conversation with your partner sooner rather than later. The father's age can also impact on chance of conception, time to pregnancy, risk of miscarriage and the health of the child. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />The facts about women, age and fertility. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJR6XLKPbWpl7duQMSITaHQVgM0CnDawt6JkrG4tBhsdbHANXdS-RndgPRYa7SHI_PkdAZXtXEsbJi232XiG-GRnPMZ18N_ixaHFM_ZLJA2RAS_Yfo0c5TS8liJUiq9Pms1dFTHyvTYago/s1600/mm.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="265" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJR6XLKPbWpl7duQMSITaHQVgM0CnDawt6JkrG4tBhsdbHANXdS-RndgPRYa7SHI_PkdAZXtXEsbJi232XiG-GRnPMZ18N_ixaHFM_ZLJA2RAS_Yfo0c5TS8liJUiq9Pms1dFTHyvTYago/s1600/mm.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>As a woman ages, it takes longer to conceive and the risk of not being able to get pregnant increases. Also, the risk of a miscarriage, and complications in pregnancy and childbirth, increase.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />The figures about women, age and fertility chances of getting pregnant:</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />*.Starting at about age 32, a woman’s chances of conceiving decreases <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>gradually but significantly. <br /><br />*.From age 35, the fertility decline speeds up. <br /><br />*.By age 40, fertility has fallen by half. <br /><br />*.At 30, the chance of conceiving per cycle is about 20%.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>At 40 it’s around 5%.Pregnancy and birth risks for older mothers <br /><br />*.The risks of pregnancy and birth complications – and caesarean section – increase with age. Complications include gestational diabetes,placen<wbr></wbr>ta praevia, and placenta abruption. <br /><br />*.Older women are more likely to have a baby with birth defects or genetic abnormalities.<br /><br />Women are born with a finite number of eggs. Thus, as the reproductive years progress, the number and quality of the eggs diminish. The chances of having a baby decrease by 3% to 5% per year after the age of 30. This reduction infertility is noted to a much greater extent after age 40. <br /><br />Infertility in women is also linked to age. The biggest decrease in fertility begins during the mid-thirties. Among women who are 35, 50% will get pregnant after three years of having regular unprotected sex. For women who are 38, only 30% will get pregnant after three years of having regular unprotected sex.<br /><br />A woman's fertility is affected by her age. The average age of a girl's first period (menarche) is 12-13 (12.5 years in the united States, 12.72 in Canada, 12.9 in the Africa and UK), but, in post menarchal girls, about 80% of the cycles are an ovulatory in the first year after menarche, 50% in the third and 10% in the sixth year. <br /><br />EXPLANATION: A woman's fertility peaks in the early and mid 20s, after which it starts to decline, with this decline being accelerated after age 35. However, the exact estimates of the chances of a woman to conceive after a certain age are not clear, with research giving differing results. The chances of a couple to successfully conceive at an advanced age depend on many factors, including the general health of a woman and the fertility of the male partner. <br /><br />MORAL LESSON: </div><div class="MsoNormal">From a purely biological perspective, it's best to try to start a family before you're 35 years old. <br /><br />Men can remain fertile for much longer than women. Even though male fertility also declines with age, it tends to happen gradually for men. <br /><br />While many men remain fertile into their 50s and beyond, the proportion of men with sperm disorders increases with age. The decline in male fertility is more gradual for men than women. The decline in male fertility can affect the health of the children they may go on to have.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div>

WHY YOU SHOULD HAVE AN EARLY MARRIAGE

Dear ladies, I know it's a long article but worth reading and sharing to your fellow lady. I took my time to make thorough research to b...

One season, Two leagues!!!! This is Kenya

Brian 0 Sports 11:47 AM

One season, Two leagues!!!! This is Kenya

It now seems FKF and KPL have decided to solve their 2015 league preparations the Kenyan way after both parties differed on how many teams...

JANUARY MUST ALWAYS HURT, MUSN'T IT?

Brian 0 Business 12:19 PM

<br /> <br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu9KkOf51897X-3VWbBG4XLlDilBcjefSzrSz9fIvJ7KdWOXIeuvx1eg7ZC3huoZbF9aBKA6eGWJPy7GY9pvEsjYstnDAJ8vZrOglBKnYNsWvmsjbja1YHZunIxXPOxZBQlT8eR82qYhcf/s1600/images.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiu9KkOf51897X-3VWbBG4XLlDilBcjefSzrSz9fIvJ7KdWOXIeuvx1eg7ZC3huoZbF9aBKA6eGWJPy7GY9pvEsjYstnDAJ8vZrOglBKnYNsWvmsjbja1YHZunIxXPOxZBQlT8eR82qYhcf/s1600/images.jpg" /></a></div>Any article preaching how to be conservative in December is very welcome in January. Bring a copy of the same in December and the same people who read it with a notebook to take notes will brush it aside and probably rename it the ‘Principles of Misery.’ Business has never been good in January as a result. People have a lot of responsibilities lined up for January that it is a miracle for men in offices to have all the three meals in a day. A friend on Facebook posted that cry and got several likes for it, he lamented that, “if you have three meals in a day na hii January, weweni illuminati na tusibishane!” funny it was indeed. Maybe he meant it or maybe not. Do January s have to be this doomed anyway? If we pause to reason, we realize that there is not a January curse at all but several factors, some avoidable contribute to this effect. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">January comes immediately after the long holidays. It comes after a massive spending season. People have been bold enough to save all year round so that they may surprise others on the last week of December. Others dig in to future salaries, January one in this case, so that they may keep up with the rest. A journey upcountry during that season cannot be successful with a lean pocket. The agreement is that you cannot be mean during the birth of Jesus. Philanthropists so we all are. Those with enough money, their own or stolen don’t spare it either. The end result is that in January first, no one has the heart to spend. Majority are compelled by circumstances not to eat while others, lamenting the numerous shillings they have parted with over the holiday, curse every invitation to spend even on themselves. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">The effect of a collective agreement not to buy means business is down. If business is down it means no easy money around as the people with the money, the successful gentlemen and ladies of business who have the holiday’s kill in their stores, are not the kind who easily part with it. To this effect add the factor that salaries are paid earlier than normal in December, as early as December twentieth, people are already on pumps and bars preparing for the official burial of their hard earned coins which comes on the 24<sup>th</sup> of that month. Then comes January, school fees, and we are just dead. This institution that drains the last of our penny has barely any effect in bringing new profits. Schools and colleges often eat by accumulating debts. January fees enter in clearing debts with businesses or what to business people is actualizing last year’s profits which they have already spend.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">What is true for each of us must be true for the society in general, but there is not a call from above that the vice-verse statement must hold. It is not a natural law that what is true for the society in general must be true for each of us. Who doesn’t know that people starve to death when the society has enough food for itself? Don’t be too ignorant, people have money in January. However, it takes a bold soul to go against the dictates of the society but it would require an even bolder soul, perhaps with some supernatural power to dictate to the society. Makers of opinion, or policy makers, or politicians which ever name you may adopt have luckily assumed this position. Their heads carry the brains of the society thanks to the unthoughtful benevolence of democracy in giving power to lead. As an individual, depending on one’s strength in spirit, we can choose to wait for change to be affected by the makers of opinion or we can at least effect the change to ourselves if not to our families. Christmas must not leave us so impoverished.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal">Either way we choose, the decision of how our January would be has it root answers on how we spend in December. Whether the decision to be more conservative during the festive season comes from us or is initiated by policy makers in government offices, it has to weigh the immerse profits during that period against the losses in January, as well as the agreeableness with consumers whom the policy is made for. More specifically to an individual, it has to come from the consideration of being celebrated as the man of class in the rural areas during the season to eat against the possibilities of hungry sleepless nights, beggarly and loneliness during January.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></div><span style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: 11.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">                </span></span>